Love & Sacrifice

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I got back today from a trip home to Arkansas.  I had the chance to visit with my grandma and talk to her about things going on in my life.  These moments are precious & there are definitely few of them now that I’m an adult.  So when I go home to visit I try to soak it all in.  I love taking photos, so I was super excited to take some senior pictures of my cousin, Lindsey.  I was talking to my Grandma about my love of photography and telling her a story of how I got my new camera.  A couple of years ago I was really really wanting a new camera but we couldn’t really afford it.  My husband had a really nice watch he got for graduation, and he sold it so that I could have my new camera.  I know there are times he probably regrets selling that watch, but that meant so much that he did that for me.  He loved that watch.  But he also knew how much I loved taking pictures.  It was the sweetest gesture, and I’ll never forget it.

So, I was telling my grandma about that story and she told me the story about the Magi.

On Christmas Eve, with only $1.87 in hand and desperate to find a gift for her husband, Jim, Della sells her long, beautiful hair for $20, and eventually finds a platinum fob chain for Jim’s watch for $21. She found the perfect gift at last and runs home and begins to prepare dinner, with 87 cents left. When Jim comes home, he looks at Della with a strange expression. Della then admits to Jim that she sold her hair to buy him his present. Jim then gives Della her present — an assortment of expensive hair combs, useless now that her hair is short. Della shows Jim the chain she bought for him, to which Jim says he sold his watch to get the money to buy her combs. Although Jim and Della are now left with gifts that neither one can use, they realize how far they are willing to go to show their love for each other, and how priceless their love really is.

I had never heard of that story until this past weekend, but apparently it’s been around for a long time.  It resonated with me after I’d told my grandma what Terence had done so I could get my new camera.   A timeless tale that came full circle into my own life.  Stories of love, hope, and giving.  That is what Folgers The Best Part is all about.  Sharing YOUR story so that it can resonate in someone else’s life and make a difference.

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Thoughts on a 2nd Child

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Bless his heart he carries all these animals around like they are his best friends.

I’ve never really talked about it before on the blog.  The desire and want to expand our family of three.  The truth is I’m so torn and not sure what to do.  I want to be thankful for our one perfect angel from Heaven.  It took us so long to have him & I’m not sure how long it would take to have another.

I didn’t have a glowing & beautiful pregnancy.  I hated being pregnant.  Gained over 70 pounds and had a 10 lb kiddo.  I had horrid nausea in the first trimester…so bad I didn’t know how I was going to get up out of bed all day.  The thought of going through all of that again scares me.  It’s totally worth it….but it scares me.

Connor is growing into such a fun little boy.  Sometimes I feel guilty because he is so needy and he desires a connection with other kids.  He’s told me before he would love a brother or sister.  I don’t quite know how to answer that?

Then there is the financial aspect of having another baby.  We’ve pretty much rid our household of all things baby related, so we’d have to re-purchase everything.  The cost of having a child in a hospital is super expensive (my insurance ain’t what it used to be!) and we certainly couldn’t afford two kids in daycare.  I know we can make sacrifices and make it work, but that would be so hard!

After we had him and experienced the endless nights of no sleep we told each other maybe this is it?  This is about all we can handle.  Lets face it, we are selfish parents and 100 % guilty of putting him in front of a TV in order to have some personal time.  We don’t read to him like we should, or do a lot of things like we “should”.  So with that comes a lot of guilt….can we give TWO enough time if we can’t give one child what he needs right now?

How do you do it?  How do you make time for yourself while still providing that attention to your child….let alone two, or three, or four?  Maybe I’m just drawing a blank because I just don’t know.

I had my annual “lady visit” a couple of weeks ago.  She kindly let me know that I was getting up there in age and once I reach 35 I’ll be considered high risk.  In my heart I would LOVE to have another child.  It’s the best, most fulfilling thing I’ve ever done in my entire life.  My husband is a planner, spreadsheets, and worry wart-whom I love dearly and am grateful for those qualities by the way!  How do we start to get on the same page?  I don’t want to look back 10 years from know and be resentful and wonder “what if?”

How do you know?  How do you manage? 

I’m lost here and just looking for advice and encouragement on the subject…because right now my heart is torn & very uncertain.

Thank you friends…..xo Becky

How I Cook Bacon

Y’all know I’m from Arkansas and one of my favorite types of meat is BACON!  Of course, who doesn’t love bacon?  Specifically….Petit Jean Bacon from Arkansas.  I married a Texas boy and even though I live here now I’m super excited I can still find my Petit Jean Bacon because they are the Official Bacon of the Dallas Cowboys too!  Check out their Dallas Cowboys gift packs .

Last night we made BLT’s for dinner.  We love a good BLT sandwich in our house.  Even my 3-year-old knows how good bacon is 🙂D7K_7921 We made our BLT’s using the Hickory Smoked Petit Jean Bacon…..sooooooo good!D7K_7918 As you can see this is a HUGE package of bacon. One of the things I hate about cooking bacon is the grease and splatter party going on.  Also, it takes forever to cook in small batches.
To make things move along a little quicker I take the entire package of bacon and cut the strips in half and just dump them in the pan.  They all cook evenly and they are easier to flip that way.  Make sure to pull them apart of course….but by cutting the strips in half it cuts cooking time and you can cook more at once.
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My happy bacon boy 😛

Weekend Wrap-Up

We had a lot of fun trick-or-treating this year.  Each year as he gets older he understands a little bit more and he did really good at saying “Thank You” to all the neighbors.  I think he enjoys passing out candy just as much!  He would just run to the door and get so excited to see all the other kids.  Here’s me and my little fishy 🙂D7K_7094Terence bought a coconut at the grocery store the other day because Connor wanted to try that.  His favorite show is “Jake and the Neverland Pirates”.  They always talk about coconuts on there, so he wanted to try a real one…

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Yeah….not so much.  He didn’t quite understand what all the fuss was about coconuts!  Ha ha!D7K_6492

Thanks to everyone who participated in the fall mug swap!  I have another partner, Jessie, and I got her package on Saturday!  Jessie, yours is a coming too…I’ve just been super busy with photo shoots this time of year! Thank you so much!!!  I love the oversized “Coffee for ONE” mug and Starbucks coffee 🙂 So so so sweet of you! xoxo Becky

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Back to the grind tomorrow….Christmas count down is officially on!!!  Wahoo!!!!

Do You Have the Most Creative Peanut Butter Sandwich? #MC

“I participated in a campaign on behalf of Mom Central Consulting (#MC) for Jif. I received a promotional item as a thank you for participating.” Cooking for a 3-year-old is crazy sometimes.  I probably make PB&J for him a couple of times a week.  He loves it and it’s a great source of protein for him.  Right now, Jif is running their Most Creative Sandwich Contest – challenging families across the country to create an original sandwich recipe that includes two tablespoons of your favorite Jif products! Parents with children ages 6-12 can submit their original sandwich for a chance to win a $25,000 college fund and a trip to New York City! Check out this picture from a finalist last year, it’s a Nutty BBQ Chicken Quesadilla.  Drooooooool. Head over and enter now before the contest ends on 11/8, be sure to read the entry rules first too!  Nutty BBQ Chicken Quesadilla

Fall Mug Swap: Reveal

I had so much fun doing the fall mug swap with y’all!  Maybe we’ll do it again next year?  But please…PLEASE…if you sign up to do a swap follow through….mmmmmmkay?  So, I ended up getting emails from a few of you and swapped with ALL of yuns!  So I’ll share my mugs below and then be sure and share your link too 🙂  Thanks everyone for joining up and HAPPY FALL!!!

My first mug was from Amber.  She’s so precious!  I love me some Seattle’s Best coffee. Duh.  And the statement mug is super cute!  Thank you Amber!
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The second mug was from Kate.  She thought of everything!  She knew I LOVE owls, chocolate, and Starbucks!  YUM!  She even sent Connor some treats and stickers.  Thank you so much Kate- I love everything.D7K_6442

And last, but not least my sweet friend Tracy sent this adorable OWL mug and glitter “B” ornament.  Now that Halloween is over I’m gearing up for Christmas and girrrrrrrrl….I’m going to be sipping out of this mug during the season!  Thank you Tracy!D7K_6449Now it’s your turn to share.  Link up below with your mugs.  I can’t wait to see what everyone got 🙂  Yay!!!

 

Halloween at Work & School

We’ve had a fun Halloween so far today at work. I just love the bank I work at! They are so awesome to the employees and we have so much fun every year on Halloween. You can probably check out previous work Halloweens in the archives of this blog 🙂 Here we are 2013 Minnie & Mickey Mouse “Mouseketeers”adfawdf Connor and his precious teacher Ms. EvaD7K_7071 All the kids dressed up and ready for a fun day of Halloween fun!D7K_7062 Our fearless leaders Ms. Susie & Ms. Mary Beth 🙂D7K_7057 D7K_7058

Here’s hoping the weather holds off tonight and we get to do some trick-or-treating!!!!

HAPPY HALLOWEEN EVERYONE!!!!